Entitled mom throws an unwanted gender reveal party for her pregnant daughter and doesn't even invite her, then steals her pregnancy announcement and tells the whole family behind her back: ‘That’s right! We’re having a girl!’

Author image for Jesse Kessenheimer
Jesse Kessenheimer • Writer and Editor
May 10, 2025 3:00 PM EDT

If you're in your 20s or 30s (or heck, maybe even beyond), you've probably felt the pressure from your parents to have kids. Regardless of how YOU feel about family planning, parents feel entitled to their undying need to become grandparents… At all costs. And once a Boomer has set their sights on grandparenthood, there's no dissuading them from going all out—even when they've gone too far. 

Advertisement

  • This woman knew she wanted to be a parent, but when she and her husband were finally announcing their pregnancy to the immediate family, her narcissistic mother made it all about herself. Naturally, under the guise of being excited about the grandparent duties, this granny-to-be lost her mind, taking over her pregnant daughter's life by demanding she handle her 9 months of pre-motherhood as an indentured servant of the family. 

    Keep reading for the story that broke this family apart as it was growing a little bigger when a mom took it upon herself to plan a baby gender reveal party that her daughter never wanted, without bothering to send the mom-to-be an invitation.

  • Cheezburger Image 10502860800
    via wundervisuals

    The image does not depict the actual subjects of the story. Subjects are models.

  • "Mom Threw The Gender Reveal I Didn’t Want… Without Me"

    It seemed like many were amused by my crazy mother's antics shared in "Mom still complains we named my daughter after MIL 1.5y later. My MIL is deceased", so here's another funny, ridiculous story from my pregnancy.
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • Disclaimer that this took place almost 2 years ago. My mother is narcissistic and ab ive. She pretended to change when we were adults. All that went
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • out the window when during my pregnancy. Everything had to be her way, or she'd scream I was making everything about me, ignoring that she was making everything about her.
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • One thing she DEMANDED early on was a gender reveal. I still don't know why. She and my father didn't have them for my brothers or me. My brothers also wanted a gender reveal. When I
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • asked why, I was told... because they wanted to. I said no. I think they're a bit creepy tbh (this is NOT a judgement on people who do
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • have them, I just didn't want one for us.) My husband agreed. I offered a compromise to my mom to add pink filters to the ultrasound photos.
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • That wasn't good enough. My mother planned a gender reveal anyway for a weekend I was visiting (I'm about 7 hours from them), and didn't tell me. She planned a virtual party with pink gender reveal decorations.
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • My dad let me know, and I was upset. I talked to my mother, and she told me she was compromising by doing a virtual gender reveal, because I didn't want a party. I told her I appreciated the thought (I
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • was in therapy for family doormatism at the time), but it wasn't something to compromise on because it wasn't wanted. I couldn't even cancel it myself because she didn't tell me who she'd invited.
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • She and my brothers hounded my husband and me, trying to get us to change our minds. Even my dad reached out to ask me to just go along with it to keep the peace.
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • After weeks of this, my mother came to us and meekly said she understood we didn't want it, but that she'd bought some pink poppers on sale. She said it would
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • mean a lot if we could please pop them and take some pictures with just my husband, dad, and brothers when we visited? It was a completely different way than she'd been talking to me. I
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • agreed, since I was taken a back, and a few photos for posterity couldn't hurt, right? Plus she asked so nicely... Well. A week before we were to visit, I was flooded with calls and
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • texts congratulating me on my baby girl. My husband and I had only told immediate family at that point, as I had suffered a late miscarriage previously.
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • My mom had changed the date and had the gender reveal a week early. My husband and I weren't even in the state. She filmed it and sent it to everyone in my family but my
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • husband and me. She also didn't include any of my husband's family, though she had their contact info. I tried to call her; straight to voicemail. 4 hours after sending it to everyone else, she sent the video to me.
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • Cheezburger Image 10502861056
    via Motortion

    The image does not depict the actual subjects of the story. Subjects are models.

  • It features my brothers breaking a piñata. When it explodes in pink powder, my mother says "That's right! We're having a girl." Then they pop pink poppers. Honestly I think it's pretty cringy.
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • Finally, she answered me. I asked why tf she had the gender reveal and sent the video without my involvement. She dismissed me and said "I don't know why you're so upset. You didn't want the gender reveal anyway."
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • Like... yes. That is exactly why I was upset. She stole my pregnancy announcement and specifically did the gender reveal I didn't want and hid it from me.
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • I was so upset I cancelled on visiting the following weekend and spent time with my husband's family instead. That's when we agreed to use my MIL's middle name for my daughter, which is
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • covered in the post I mentioned at the beginning. Hopefully you get some enjoyment from this story! I was so upset at the time, but looking back, the absurdity makes me laugh.
    via HmIdkYImHere
  • jahubb062 I hope your mom is now on the list of people who don't get to know anything until after you've told literally everyone else. She shouldn't know about pregnancies until you've
    via jahubb062
  • told absolutely everyone you want to tell. She shouldn't find out the gender until the baby is born. Your dad and brothers go on that list too, since they're her enablers.
    via jahubb062
  • Catqueen25 I would have told mom we planned to use her name but because of the gender reveal, we went with MIL's name instead.
    via Catqueen25

Want More? Follow Us and Add Us as a Preferred Source on Google.

Tags

crazy family drama dads entitled parents famiies drama kids brother siblings moms parenting dad story family sibling sister stories parent mom cousins dramatic parents gender reveal
Scroll Down For The Next Article